Life as a costume party Think of life as a grand costume party. When you arrive, you pick a costume—perhaps a jester, king, pauper, or sage—and play your part, interacting with others according to your role. At first, it’s exciting. You get lost in your character. But as time passes, something feels off. The costume… Read More »What is self-awareness?
According to Carl Jung, the first half of life is focused on ego and external goals, while the second half is a period of inward exploration and integration. The second half is marked by a reevaluation of values and a focus on deeper relationships and genuine meaning. This can be emotionally challenging but presents an… Read More »How to be self-aware?
After penning thank you notes for over a decade, I’ve come to see this practice as far more than an obligatory gesture. Sitting down to handwrite an expression of thanks can feel like a revolutionary act – one that benefits both me, the writer and the recipient in surprising ways. The process of composing a… Read More »The Thank You Note: A simple path to greater happiness
Want a stronger, closer relationship with your partner? The secret lies in how you respond to their bids for emotional connection. What is a bid? Bids are the small ways we reach out to our partner throughout the day, seeking attention, affection, or acknowledgement. It’s any small expression that says, “I want to connect with… Read More »Responding to your partner’s bids
Spindle Density Spindle density refers to the number of “spindles” that occur during non-rapid eye movement (NREM) sleep in the brain. Spindles are brief bursts of brain activity that occur during stage 2 of NREM sleep. Research suggests that spindle density is related to a variety of cognitive functions, including memory consolidation, learning, and attention.… Read More »Definitions and concepts related to sleep
Experiencing stress and anxiety is a common part of life. From managing deadlines to handling personal issues, these feelings can show up unexpectedly. How nice would it be to have some quick tricks to bring peace of mind? This article will introduce easy and effective methods to help you regain composure promptly. Understanding stress and… Read More »Quick techniques for reducing stress and beating anxiety
A 10-second breathing technique to inner calm Palms sweating, heart pounding, thoughts racing – stress ambushes you without warning. In those overwhelming moments, every passing second feels like an eternity of anguish. But what if you could escape this mental chaos in the time it takes to tie your shoelaces? A well-guarded secret lies in… Read More »The physiological sigh to reduce stress
Sharing a bed, fighting over covers, waking up to snoring – it’s long been seen as an unavoidable part of committed relationships. But more couples are realizing that a good night’s sleep and a good partnership don’t have to be at odds. Sleeping separately doesn’t signal the end of intimacy, it marks the beginning of… Read More »Sleep divorce: How sleeping separately could save your marriage
We all want relationships that can go the distance. But when bills, kids, and busy schedules conspire against us, how do we stop our connection from crumbling under the pressure? Enter the 2-2-2 rule – a beautifully simple way for couples to put each other first. No, it’s not about rigid date night quotas or… Read More »The 2-2-2 rule: Your secret to a thriving long-term relationship
Brushing your teeth is one of those routine tasks you do on autopilot, like tying your shoelaces or making toast. You squeeze some toothpaste on your brush, scrub your chompers for a minute or two, spit, rinse, and get on with your day. Easy peasy, right? Well, hold on to your toothbrush, because it turns… Read More »How to brush your teeth: Have you been doing it all wrong?
