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The How of Happiness by Sonja Lyubomirsky Summary

The How of Happiness [Summary]

    The 12 science-backed happiness hacks that actually work You’ve tried meditation apps, bought self-help books, and maybe even attended a wellness retreat or two. But you’re still waiting for that lasting happiness to kick in. The problem isn’t your effort. Most happiness advice lacks scientific backing. Sonja Lyubomirsky, a psychology researcher, has spent over 25… Read More »The How of Happiness [Summary]

    The good life is built with good relationships. Robert J. Waldinger

    The good life is built

      About the author Robert J. Waldinger serves as the director of one of the longest-running studies of adult life ever conducted. Born in 1951, Waldinger graduated from Harvard College and Harvard Medical School, then completed his psychiatry residency at Massachusetts Mental Health Center. His famous quote gained worldwide attention during his 2015 TED Talk titled… Read More »The good life is built

      Fill your life with experiences not things. Have stories to tell not stuff to show. Unknown

      Fill your life with experiences

        About the author This quote has no known author. Without knowing who first said these words, we focus only on the message itself. Anonymous quotes like this one have lasted because they speak to common human experiences. The words remain important even though we don’t know their source. Many of the most enduring sayings in… Read More »Fill your life with experiences

        It isn’t what you have or who you are or where you are or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about it.

        It isn’t what you have

          About the author Dale Carnegie (1888-1955) was an American writer and lecturer who created courses on self-improvement, public speaking, and interpersonal skills. Born to a poor farming family in Missouri, Carnegie worked as a salesman and actor before finding his true calling as a teacher of public speaking. His 1936 book “How to Win Friends… Read More »It isn’t what you have

          The happiness paradox and why you should not track your happiness

          Don’t track your happiness

            The happiness tracking app promised to change my life. Three months later, I had beautiful graphs showing my happiness peaks and valleys. What the app didn’t warn me about, however, was what psychologists call “meta-awareness”, the act of observing one’s own emotions. My spontaneous joy was measured and analysed. I had plenty of data about… Read More »Don’t track your happiness

            If nothing is going well, call your grandmother. Italian proverb

            If nothing is going well

              About the author The quote is attributed to an Italian proverb. While proverbs do not have a single identifiable author, they are valuable cultural artifacts passed down through generations. Italian proverbs often reflect the wisdom, values, and humor of Italian society. They are known for their practical advice and insights into daily life. This particular… Read More »If nothing is going well

              The secret to happiness is low expectations. Barry Schwartz, a psychologist, and author of The Paradox of Choice

              The secret to happiness

                About the author Barry Schwartz is an American psychologist and emeritus at Swarthmore College, renowned for his research in psychology and economics. Born in 1946, Schwartz has significantly contributed to the understanding of human behaviour, particularly regarding decision-making and happiness. He is best known for his book “The Paradox of Choice: Why More Is Less,”… Read More »The secret to happiness

                Anticipation is sometimes more exciting than actual events. Ana Monnar

                Anticipation

                  About the author Ana Monnar (1931-2019) was a Chilean poet, novelist, and essayist whose body of work explored themes of identity, memory, and the human experience. She is celebrated for her lyrical style and ability to capture the nuances of emotion and consciousness in her writing. Throughout her illustrious career, Monnar won multiple prestigious literary… Read More »Anticipation