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Hold my duck: A problem-solving hack

Hold my duck - Problem solving and Thinking Hack

Your brain works differently when you speak aloud.

When stuck on a problem, most people retreat into silent thought. They read the same information repeatedly, hoping for a rare breakthrough. But silent thinking uses only part of your brain’s problem-solving machinery. When you verbalise a problem—speaking it aloud to another person—you activate language centres that remain dormant during internal reflection.

Scientists have observed this phenomenon for decades. At research centers like Xerox PARC, employees developed a ritual where one person would ask another to “hold their duck” while they talked through a complex issue. The listener wouldn’t offer advice. They’d simply pay attention. Almost magically, solutions would emerge from the speaker’s own explanation.

I’ve since watched this happen hundreds of times with friends, colleagues, and even strangers. Someone starts explaining their problem and suddenly stops, eyes lighting up with realisation.

Words spoken aloud rewire problems your silent brain can’t solve.

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Why explaining your problem leads to solutions

You sit staring at a problem that makes no sense. The solution feels miles away. You’ve tried everything. Reading more, taking breaks, revisiting your notes, but nothing works. Then you ask a friend to listen while you explain the issue, and halfway through your explanation, the answer hits you like lightning.

This phenomenon happens because talking through problems activates different parts of your brain than silent thinking does.

About the method

The “Hold my duck” method has roots in programming circles where it’s called “rubber duck debugging.” Software developers would explain their code line-by-line to a rubber duck on their desk and often spot the bug during their explanation.

A more powerful version involves a human listener. At Xerox PARC, a research hub known for groundbreaking innovations, researchers developed a practice where someone would ask a colleague to “hold their duck” while they talked through a problem. The colleague wouldn’t offer solutions. They’d just listen. Often, the explainer would solve their own problem midway through and say, “Thanks for holding my duck.”

This practice spread through Pixar’s technical teams, where it became common for someone to walk into an office and say, “I need you to hold my duck,” signalling they needed to talk through an issue without interruption.

Practical steps

  1. Find a listener
    Ask a friend, family member, or colleague if they have a few minutes to listen to you work through a problem. Make it clear you don’t need advice—just their attention.
  2. Explain from scratch
    Start with the basics as if your listener knows nothing about your problem. This forces you to organise
    your thoughts and often reveals gaps in your understanding.
  3. Speak aloud
    Verbalisation engages language centres in the brain that remain dormant during silent thinking. This creates new neural connections that can lead to insights.
  4. Watch for the “aha” moment
    Pay attention to when clarity strikes. It often happens mid-sentence as you explain a particularly tricky aspect of the problem.
  5. Thank your listener
    Acknowledge their time and patience, even if they didn’t actively contribute to the solution.

Extra tips

  • No human available? Write it out: If you can’t find someone to listen, writing a detailed explanation works similarly. The act of structuring your thoughts in language still activates problem-solving pathways.
  • Record yourself: Speaking your problem into a voice recorder can work almost as well as talking to another person.
  • Set a time limit: Respect your listener’s time by keeping your explanation under 10 minutes when possible.
  • Create “duck time” at work: For teams that face complex problems, setting aside regular times for “duck holding” sessions can boost productivity and create a culture of supportive problem-solving.

The science behind it

When you explain a problem out loud, you:

  • Force clarity: Vague ideas must become concrete words
  • Create distance: Verbalisation helps you step back from the problem and see it more objectively
  • Engage both hemispheres: Speaking connects the analytical and creative sides of your brain
  • Slow down: Talking is slower than thinking, giving your brain time to make connections
  • Fill gaps: To explain something completely, you must address holes in your understanding

Use this method next time you face a difficult decision, a complex problem, or a creative block. Find someone willing to “hold your duck” while you talk it through. The solution often lies not in getting advice, but in hearing yourself explain the problem fully.

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