My coworker took credit for my project and got the promotion I deserved. For months, I replayed the betrayal in my mind. I avoided her in hallways. I declined team lunches. I told the story to anyone who would listen. My anger felt good at first. Warm and validating. I was right. She was wrong.… Read More »How to let go (of a grudge)
When I moved away from home for the first time, loneliness wasn’t the only emotion that surprised me. Even more unexpected was the sheer force of my anger in the face of daily frustrations. Slow traffic sent me into a blinding rage. A missed deadline at work left me shaking. The mildest slights from my… Read More »How to control you anger: Why venting doesn’t help and what to do instead
One of the earliest recorded instances of advice on managing anger comes from the Stoic philosopher Seneca in his work “On Anger.” In it, he suggests that the best way to handle anger is through patience, understanding and self-control. Seneca believed that anger is a destructive emotion and advocated for rational thought as a means… Read More »Write your anger away
