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One of the earliest recorded instances of advice on managing anger comes from the Stoic philosopher Seneca in his work “On Anger.” In it, he suggests that the best way to handle anger is through patience, understanding and self-control. Seneca believed that anger is a destructive emotion and advocated for rational thought as a means to overcome it.

If patience and understanding don’t work for you, please know that there are many other techniques that can help you manage your anger. While hitting the gym and unleashing your frustration on a punchbag or exercise bike can be cathartic, a simple method involving pen and paper has been proven more effective. This method pinpoints the benefits of writing as a therapeutic tool and the impact that interactions with physical objects can have on emotional regulation.

How to write your anger away

When dealing with anger, the simple act of writing down your emotions can be a powerful tool for self-expression and release. Here’s how you do it:

  1. Identify the source of anger: Take a moment to reflect on what triggered your anger. It could be a recent incident, a frustrating situation or even a past memory.
  2. Grab a pen and a piece of paper: Find a quiet space to jot down your thoughts. Write down your raw emotions without any filters or judgment.
  3. Express your anger: Pour out your anger onto the paper. Let your emotions flow freely as you describe how you feel and why you feel that way.
  4. Release the negative energy: Once you have written down your thoughts, it’s time to let them go. You can crumple up the paper, tear it apart, or shred it into pieces.
  5. Shred and dispose of the paper: Throw away the piece(s) in a bin or trash can to release your anger and negative emotions.

When I’m really angry, I shred the paper into pieces and crumble the pieces into a paper ball. Then I throw the paper ball into our fireplace and set it on fire. Nothing like watching your anger burn away!

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