I used to roll my eyes whenever I heard someone utter phrases like “You got this!” or “Don’t worry, you can handle it!” It sounded like an empty self-help drivel, the kind of cheesy motivational-poster lingo that belongs in a dentist’s waiting room circa 1995. Talking to yourself, let alone in the second person? I… Leia mais "Conversa interna para aumentar seu controle emocional
I dreaded the telltale of nerves before a big exam or presentation. My heart pounding, sweaty palms, thoughts spiralling into a maze of what-ifs. I’d take deep breaths, try to relax, attempt to banish the butterflies. But fighting my anxiety only seemed to make it worse. What I didn’t realize then was that anxiety was… Leia mais "Reframe your anxiety to increase performance
We’ve all been there – a friend calls in tears, a family member shares devastating news, a coworker breaks down in the office. In those heart-wrenching moments, it’s painfully clear: you can’t fix their anguish with a snap of your fingers. The hurt is real and raw. Advice and solutions, however well-intentioned, often ring hollow.… Leia mais "7 phrases to comfort someone in crisis
When I moved away from home for the first time, loneliness wasn’t the only emotion that surprised me. Even more unexpected was the sheer force of my anger in the face of daily frustrations. Slow traffic sent me into a blinding rage. A missed deadline at work left me shaking. The mildest slights from my… Leia mais "How to control you anger: Why venting doesn’t help and what to do instead
We all have passwords—those little gateways that let us into our digital worlds each day. We type them so often that they become automatic and unconscious. But what if that small, repeated act could be harnessed for a higher purpose? What if every time you logged on, instead of a random jumble of characters, you… Leia mais "Set your password for healing and growth
Quando foi a última vez que a ansiedade dominou você completamente? Talvez tenha sido antes de uma grande apresentação, depois de uma discussão com seu parceiro ou no meio de uma loja lotada? A ansiedade é uma droga. Ela pode atacar a qualquer hora, em qualquer lugar, deixando você nervoso, tonto e com falta de ar. Seu coração dispara e seus pensamentos ficam fora de controle. Bem,... Leia mais "A técnica de respiração Voo para você se acalmar e acabar com a ansiedade
A 10-second breathing technique to inner calm Palms sweating, heart pounding, thoughts racing – stress ambushes you without warning. In those overwhelming moments, every passing second feels like an eternity of anguish. But what if you could escape this mental chaos in the time it takes to tie your shoelaces? A well-guarded secret lies in… Leia mais "The physiological sigh to reduce stress
Reframing life’s frustrations Stoicism, the ancient philosophy that’s seen a modern resurgence, offers timeless wisdom for handling life’s daily irritations. At the heart of its teachings is a simple yet profoundly effective technique: the Stoic Pause. What exactly is the Stoic Pause? In essence, it’s taking a step back when confronted with a frustrating situation… Leia mais "The Stoic Pause: Your tool for emotional resilience
The grounding technique to calm your anxiety Anxiety can feel like a whirlwind of racing thoughts and physical discomfort, leaving you feeling overwhelmed and out of control. A simple technique can help you find calm amidst the chaos. This emotional hack involves engaging your senses to redirect your focus from anxious thoughts to the present… Leia mais "The 3-3-3 technique to reduce anxiety
Painful memories can be a significant obstacle to our emotional well-being, hindering our ability to live fully in the present. By understanding the process of letting go and implementing proven strategies, we can learn to release the grip of these memories and reclaim our peace of mind. Step 1: Face your memory The first step… Leia mais "How to forget a painful memory
