I used to roll my eyes whenever I heard someone utter phrases like “You got this!” or “Don’t worry, you can handle it!” It sounded like an empty self-help drivel, the kind of cheesy motivational-poster lingo that belongs in a dentist’s waiting room circa 1995. Talking to yourself, let alone in the second person? I… Les mer "Selvsnakk for å øke din emosjonelle kontroll
I dreaded the telltale of nerves before a big exam or presentation. My heart pounding, sweaty palms, thoughts spiralling into a maze of what-ifs. I’d take deep breaths, try to relax, attempt to banish the butterflies. But fighting my anxiety only seemed to make it worse. What I didn’t realize then was that anxiety was… Les mer "Omformuler angsten din for å øke prestasjonen
We’ve all been there – a friend calls in tears, a family member shares devastating news, a coworker breaks down in the office. In those heart-wrenching moments, it’s painfully clear: you can’t fix their anguish with a snap of your fingers. The hurt is real and raw. Advice and solutions, however well-intentioned, often ring hollow.… Les mer "7 phrases to comfort someone in crisis
When I moved away from home for the first time, loneliness wasn’t the only emotion that surprised me. Even more unexpected was the sheer force of my anger in the face of daily frustrations. Slow traffic sent me into a blinding rage. A missed deadline at work left me shaking. The mildest slights from my… Les mer "How to control you anger: Why venting doesn’t help and what to do instead
We all have passwords—those little gateways that let us into our digital worlds each day. We type them so often that they become automatic and unconscious. But what if that small, repeated act could be harnessed for a higher purpose? What if every time you logged on, instead of a random jumble of characters, you… Les mer "Set your password for healing and growth
When was the last time anxiety completely overwhelmed you? Maybe it was before a big presentation, after an argument with your partner, or in the middle of a crowded store? Anxiety sucks. It can strike anytime, anywhere, leaving you jittery, lightheaded, short of breath. Your heart races and your thoughts spin out of control. Well,… Les mer "The Voo breathing technique to calm down and stop anxiety
A 10-second breathing technique to inner calm Palms sweating, heart pounding, thoughts racing – stress ambushes you without warning. In those overwhelming moments, every passing second feels like an eternity of anguish. But what if you could escape this mental chaos in the time it takes to tie your shoelaces? A well-guarded secret lies in… Les mer "The physiological sigh to reduce stress
Reframing life’s frustrations Stoicism, the ancient philosophy that’s seen a modern resurgence, offers timeless wisdom for handling life’s daily irritations. At the heart of its teachings is a simple yet profoundly effective technique: the Stoic Pause. What exactly is the Stoic Pause? In essence, it’s taking a step back when confronted with a frustrating situation… Les mer "The Stoic Pause: Your tool for emotional resilience
Jordingsteknikken for å roe ned angsten Angst kan føles som en virvelvind av tankemylder og fysisk ubehag, slik at du føler deg overveldet og ute av kontroll. En enkel teknikk kan hjelpe deg med å finne roen midt i kaoset. Dette emosjonelle hacket går ut på å engasjere sansene dine for å omdirigere fokus fra engstelige tanker til nåtiden... Les mer "3-3-3-teknikken for å redusere angst
Smertefulle minner kan være en betydelig hindring for vårt emosjonelle velvære, og hindre oss i å leve fullt ut i nåtiden. Ved å forstå prosessen med å gi slipp og ta i bruk velprøvde strategier kan vi lære oss å slippe taket i minnene og gjenvinne sjelefreden. Trinn 1: Se minnene i øynene Det første trinnet... Les mer "Hvordan glemme et smertefullt minne
