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How to use sleep to transform your emotional memories

Revisit a positive memory before sleep

Two remarkable studies have uncovered how sleep acts as a secret editor of our emotional past. By tracking brain activity during sleep, researchers have found that our brains do not strengthen all memories equally. They can weaken negative memories while enhancing positive ones when we intentionally activate those positive memories before going to sleep.

This discovery doesn’t just change how we understand memory. It gives us a powerful tool to reshape our emotional memories.

The science behind memory transformation during sleep

Scientists from the University of Zurich found that combining a therapeutic technique called imagery rescripting with targeted memory reactivation during sleep produced remarkable results. Participants first underwent imagery rescripting therapy, where they revisited distressing autobiographical memories and transformed them into more positive narratives.

During subsequent sleep, researchers presented personalised word cues associated with these rescripted memories. The results were striking. Not only did the therapy itself reduce negative emotions and memory vividness, but those who received the memory cues during sleep showed even greater improvements. Their memories became significantly less vivid and carried less emotional distress.

In a separate study from the University of Hong Kong, researchers explored how reactivating positive memories during sleep could weaken existing negative ones. Participants first learned associations between words and negative images, then later associated those same words with positive images. When researchers presented these memory cues during non-rapid-eye-movement sleep, participants showed reduced recall of negative memories and increased spontaneous recall of positive ones upon waking.

How memory processing works during sleep

Sleep plays a crucial role in memory consolidation. During deep sleep, our brains naturally replay and reorganise the day’s experiences, strengthening some memories while weakening others.

“When reactivating emotional memories during sleep, we found that cue-elicited theta brain rhythms predominantly predicted the recall of positive memories.”

This suggests sleep interventions can selectively enhance certain memories over others.

Both studies point to the same conclusion: sleep offers a unique window where emotional memories become malleable and open to positive transformation.

Putting research into practice

You can apply these findings through a simple practice:

  • Revisit one positive memory before bed.

Before falling asleep, bring to mind a moment when you felt connected, confident or calm. Replay the scene in detail, focusing on sensory experiences and positive emotions. This practice helps position this memory for preferential processing during sleep.

Some examples of positive memories to focus on before sleep include:

  • A moment of accomplishment, like completing a project or reaching a personal goal.
  • An instance of deep connection, such as a heartfelt conversation or shared laughter.
  • A peaceful experience in nature, like watching a sunset or feeling a gentle breeze.
  • A simple joy, like savouring a delicious meal or listening to beautiful music.
  • A memory of feeling completely relaxed and at peace, perhaps during a vacation.
  • An experience of helping someone else and seeing the positive impact of your actions.
  • A childhood memory that brings feelings of safety and contentment.
  • A recent moment of gratitude when you felt appreciative of something in your life.

As you recall these positive memories, try to engage all your senses. What did you see? What sounds accompanied the experience? Were there any distinct smells or tastes? How did your body feel? The more vividly you can recreate the experience, the more effectively your brain can process and strengthen these positive emotional memories during sleep.

Over time, this micropractice helps reshape memory networks in your brain. By consistently prioritising positive emotional experiences during sleep consolidation, you gradually build patterns of optimism and resilience that support long-term mental health.

I bunn og grunn

The power of revisiting positive memories before bed lies in its simplicity. Just as negative thought patterns before bed can trigger anxiety dreams or restless sleep, positive memory activation guides your brain toward constructive emotional processing throughout the night.

This practice doesn’t erase difficult memories but helps reduce their emotional weight while strengthening your capacity to recall and benefit from positive experiences.

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