It’s all too easy to lose sight of the qualities that drew you to your partner in the first place. The little quirks that once charmed you may now grate on your nerves, and the gestures of love and support you once treasured may fade into familiarity. Shifting your focus back to appreciation, you can… Sigue leyendo "Make a “What I love about my partner” list
A simple exercise to strengthen your relationship bond Relationships are complex shared experiences, mutual understanding and inevitable conflicts. While disagreements are a natural part of any intimate partnership, how couples navigate these choppy waters can make all the difference in the strength and longevity of their connection. Recent research published in the journal Personal Relationships… Sigue leyendo "Reflect on your relationship conflicts
Conversational receptiveness is a communication approach that involves using specific words, phrases, and techniques to demonstrate engagement with and understanding of the other person’s perspective during a conversation, particularly in situations of disagreement or conflict. It aims to create a more open, respectful, and productive dialogue by focusing on listening, acknowledging the other person’s viewpoint,… Sigue leyendo "La técnica HEAR para mejorar la comunicación y resolver conflictos
Cuando alguien comparte contigo sus problemas o luchas, es tentador ofrecerle consejos o soluciones. Sin embargo, a veces necesitan una simple afirmación, un reconocimiento y validación de sus experiencias y emociones. Utilizando el truco de la afirmación, puedes crear un entorno de apoyo que permita a la persona sentirse escuchada y comprendida. Imagina que tu amigo te confía... Sigue leyendo "Afirmación: Validar experiencias y reforzar vínculos
When conversing with others, especially when discussing problems or differing opinions, it’s easy to fall into the trap of trying to prove your point. However, this approach can lead to a breakdown in communication and understanding. Instead, try using the pleasing, not proving hack, which focuses on discovering and appreciating the other person’s perspective. Imagine… Sigue leyendo "Complacer, no demostrar: Fomentar la comprensión y la conexión
When someone shares a personal problem or concern with you, you must show that you’re actively engaged in the conversation. One effective way to do this is through gentle inquiry, which involves asking open-ended questions that encourage the speaker to explore their thoughts and feelings more deeply. Imagine your friend confides in you about a… Sigue leyendo "La indagación amable: Fomentar una comunicación y una comprensión más profundas
When someone comes to you with a problem, it’s natural to want to jump in and offer solutions. After all, we want to help those we care about. However, sometimes, the best way to support someone is by simply listening and empathizing with their situation rather than trying to solve their problems for them. Imagine… Sigue leyendo "Supportive listening: Empower others to find their own solution
Imagina un truco sencillo para mantener tu matrimonio fuerte y feliz. No es una fantasía, sino una realidad descubierta por el Dr. Gottman y Robert Levenson en los años setenta. Se llama el truco de las relaciones 5:1, una proporción sencilla pero poderosa que puede transformar tu relación. El Dr. John Gottman y Robert Levenson descubrieron un patrón fascinante en... Sigue leyendo "El truco de la relación 5:1 del Dr. Gottman
Saying “Tell me more” is one of the most powerful tools for turning difficult conversations into moments of genuine connection and understanding. Listening is the No. 1 communication skill Listening is the most important communication skill, and yet the most neglected. We all think we’re good listeners, but we’re not. We’re too busy, distracted, self-absorbed… Sigue leyendo "“Tell me more”: The 3 words that transforms a difficult conversation
